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Cake day: December 24th, 2023

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  • People are saying get hobbies… And yep.

    I’ve been very “successful” on the dating apps, but they almost always resulted in a one night stand or a fling for a few weeks. You meet someone with the expectation of romance and you never form a friendship because you see eachother as romantic partners first. That may work for some people, but I see it as a loss of foundation. When I don’t have a history with someone before being intimate, I tend to feel overwhelmed with the anxiety of expectations.

    For me I found swing dancing was a great way to meet people. It’s fun, there isn’t necessarily an expectation of romance, but it also is a mood where romance can happen. I also thought to myself “I can either sit on my couch high AF while feeling like shit as I swipe left and right while trying to hold a virtual conversation that mostly goes nowhere, or I can go dancing. If I strike out on tinder, I feel like I wasted an evening. If I strike out dancing, fuck it I had a great time anyway!”







  • So I consider myself an optimist, but even I know it’s stupid to say “I’m happy I only suffered a little bit so I will ignore solvable problems”. Also I find it very weird and disturbing that the argument “you are free to die” is being used to promote what I assume is a free market approach to healthcare. Or maybe you don’t have an angle other than to tell OP that they aren’t in pain, when obviously they are, and that’s fucked up.

    Yea, there’s a lot we have going for us with medical advances, but let’s not forget the reason millions die every year is not because lack of medical advances, but rather lack of access to those advances. Those millions of people didn’t choose not to afford it. They didn’t choose to die.

    Being an optimist isn’t about ignoring the problems of the world and calling people who are upset about these problems bitter. It’s about looking at these problems head on and believing you can address them. If you are an optimist, the light you shine should allow you to see.






  • Hello, I’m meep_launcher, and I’m a recovering moderator.

    Not only did my tools get taken, after the mass exedus, my mod queue exploded. There were so many more racist reports than before, and I was mod of a political satire subreddit.

    Turns out the exedus took all the left leaning redditors leaving behind real pieces of work.

    Glad I made the switch, and I set up cartographyanarchy here, so maybe I can get back to doing what I love, shitposting maps.

    Shitpost maps with me!

    One more edit, I want to get this community up and running, so if you post in the next 24 hours I will write your map a song and post the link in the comments.

    Oh also DM if you want to be a mod! Definitely looking for folks skilled in the art of Lemmy, coding, or just being all around wholesome.