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          And yet you think that trans women don’t look like and behave like women (they are women and saying otherwise is in itself transphobic), rather than understand that you just don’t realize that the trans women who do pass as cis are trans.

          Because I doubt you’d know this woman was trans if you saw her walking down the street with her elegant model’s walk.

          Also, please tell us how a woman or a man is supposed to behave.

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              It’s obvious to me that most trans women do not look or behave like women.

              Again, you have no way of knowing that. All you know is that you have seen trans people who you assumed were trans. My wife works with a cis woman who has rather masculine features and even a mustache. You would probably think she was trans.

              You have no idea what is between someone’s legs unless you can see for yourself.

              This is what I meant by friction that most trans people both suffer from and cause.

              You can claim to not be transphobic, but when you then victim-blame trans people for being the cause of their own problems, you are.

              I’m guessing you wouldn’t say that other queer people, such as a gay man, does not cause friction by being gay.